Community Guidelines

Version MX-GUIDELINES-2026-10-D · updated 29 October 2026

My Mistress X exists for consenting adults to explore female-led power exchange safely. These rules keep it that way.

Adults only

• Every member must be 18 or over. Your date of birth is locked at sign-up.
• Any suggestion of a minor — in roleplay, photos or text — means an immediate, permanent ban and a report to the authorities.

Consensual power exchange

My Mistress X is built for consenting adults in Dominant/submissive power exchange. Consensual coercion, consensual blackmail and exposure play, consensual monitoring, consensual extortion, financial domination and financial agreements, contracts, CNC (consensual non-consent) and other negotiated play are recognised parts of this community — they are not banned because of the words used to describe them.

• Consent can be given per action, per scene, as a standing or recurring agreement, through a contract, or as pre-authorised authority within agreed limits. Chosen submission is a choice, and it is respected here.
• What matters is the agreed scope. Conduct inside what both adults agreed is supported; conduct outside it is not made acceptable by calling it a kink.
• Hard limits listed on a profile are absolute unless that member changes them.
• Chastity and keyholding happen only under an agreement the Sub has read and accepted in the Chastity Vault. He can end any lock at once with the emergency unlock, without penalty — and should if he's hurt, unwell or unsafe. Pressuring anyone not to use it is outside the agreed scope. No devices are connected to the site.

Outside the agreed scope — never allowed

• Demands, threats, exposure or monitoring that the other adult never agreed to, or that go beyond the agreed terms.
• Sharing anyone's private information or images outside the agreement (doxxing), or contacting their real-life connections without consent.
• Scams: asking members to send money off-platform for "verification", fake profiles, or impersonation.

Respect and safety

• No hate speech, slurs targeting real groups, or harassment outside agreed scenes.
• Only upload photos of yourself, that you own and that you're happy for members to see. No explicit images in profile photos.
• Report anything that breaks these rules. Reports are confidential and reviewed by our moderators.

Content you post or sell

• Only post or sell content you made or have the rights to. Everyone who appears in it must be an adult who agreed to appear and to it being sold.
• Describe items honestly. Laundry Hamper items must be genuinely yours and worn as described; keepsakes must be what the photos show.
• Never re-upload, share or resell content you bought, and never try to remove a watermark.
• Store items and covers are reviewed before they go on sale; anything breaking these rules is refused or removed.

Live shows, calls and scene rooms

• No screenshots, screen recordings or copies of shows, calls or rooms without everyone's consent. The site never records calls.
• Respect the host's room rules and the limits on each profile. Hosts can mute or remove guests; staff can end rooms and shows.
• Use Quick exit (Esc twice) at any time to leave a call and land on a plain page.

Money

• Paying a Mistress is always your choice. Financial domination is welcome within what both of you agreed — but no one is entitled to money you haven't chosen to send.
• Keep payments on the site, where they're recorded and protected. Never send money for “verification”, “unlocking an account” or to someone claiming to be staff — the Headmistress team never asks for payment by message.
• Don't use refunds, chargebacks or reports to get things for free, and don't buy or sell for someone else to avoid a block or ban.

Meeting in person

• Meeting is always optional. Talk through limits and a safe word before you meet, meet first in a public place, and tell a friend where you'll be.
• Never pressure anyone to meet, and never turn up somewhere you weren't invited.
• At events and meetups, the host's rules and the Community Guidelines both apply. Keep an event's address to yourself — never share it or bring someone who doesn't have a place.

Identity and accounts

• No impersonation, fake profiles, or second accounts to get around a block, warning or ban.
• A gold tick shows the Headmistress team checked an identity; never fake or claim one you don't have.

What happens when rules are broken

Depending on how serious it is, we may remove content, give a formal warning (which you must acknowledge), suspend an account for 24 hours to 30 days, or close it. Anything involving minors, threats of real harm or non-consensual sharing of images means an immediate, permanent ban and, where the law requires, a report to the authorities.